“You cannot live to please everyone else. You have to edify, educate and fulfil your own dreams and destiny, and hope that whatever your art is that you’re putting out there, if it’s received, great, I respect you for receiving it. If it’s not received, great, I respect you for not.” ~ Octavia Spencer
We live in a time when there are more than one trillion photos taken every year. Most of those will be snapshots from camera owners, quick captures to document a singular instance – a new hair style, lunch, something cute that a pet or child just did. They’re tossed onto any number of social media sites without a second thought. Take them or leave them … done and done.
Then you have the photographers: student, aspiring, pro or artist, it doesn’t much matter – they create with their cameras. Starting with imitation and, hopefully, working their way through inspiration to innovation, they use varying combinations of skill, knowledge and vision to make photographs. A piece of themselves goes into each one as they express themselves through this visual medium. But, when it comes time to show someone their works of art (or art that works), they say something tragic:
“I only had this to work with …”
“I know it’s not perfect but …”
“This was just shot quickly …”
“I’m still unsure about …”
“It’s not great, I know, but …”
Before the other person even looks at the first pixel, they’re setting the stage for a let down with an excuse, self-deprecation or outright criticism of their own work. That leaves the viewer with only two choices: they approach the work with the same negativity with which it was presented to them or they’ll feel obligated to talk the image up to encourage the photographer. Either way, they’re not being given the opportunity to form their own unbiased opinion of the piece they’re being shown. It’s like giving someone a taste of food as you say “this is horrible”. They’ll probably start making the what-did-you-just-put-in-my-mouth face before they close their lips.
I get it, I do. There’s a strong impulse to doubt yourself when showing off a new creation. I feel it, too. You’ve made this thing of light and love, glued together with your unique perspective, and you’re putting it out there for the world to see. It’s a piece of yourself that you’re committing to the collective, knowing that the first person who sees it could pass unforgiving judgement upon your child d’art. That happens sometimes, you can’t please everyone. What can also happen is that someone will see it and say “This speaks to me. Well done!” However, they have to be given the chance to react and reach that conclusion on their own.
Have a little faith. The photograph has been taken and the art made.
Now let it speak for itself.
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